The
first thing I heard when I went through the Eastern door of the cabin
this morning, was Crow. A single caw came from the Southeast. Then,
from the Northeast, I heard a series of caws. This kind of call, the
caw-caw-caw, always reminds me of laughter, because it seems to be
infectious amongst my Crow cousins.
As
I sat and listened to them caw-caw-cawing back and forth, I got
thinking about the importance of laughter. A good laugh can pull me
out of whatever bad mood I happen to be in. I remember when my dad
died, how important it was for me and my brothers to sit around and
laugh. We laughed about the past, we even laughed about the present;
about the fact the my dad was dead, and that the funeral was taking
place in the sanctuary where we had played hide and seek as kids,
avoiding getting caught by the Janitor, Mr. Peterson.
Our
laughter was irreverent, but not disrespectful, and I'm sure my
father would have approved. We weren't laughing at anyone but
ourselves and the overwhelming situation we were facing. There could
be no doubt that learning to live without my father was a serious
thing, but learning to use laughter to get through was essential.
I
don't believe Crow is ever laughing at anything. I think Crow laughs
from the joy of being alive. Whether that is true of not, I
appreciate Crow bring laughter into my morning, and reminding me to
pay attention to the joy in my own life.
Today,
I will remember Crow's lesson and look for opportunities to laugh,
and enjoy the healing it brings into my day.
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